COMMUNICATE:- then u wont have to compromise that much

why is it that you are hurt most by the people you love?...

At times it is really tough to answer Questions like these...
ever really thought why??
I guess not

because their thought about you, their feelings about u matters the most to you
then why are you hurt so much when they complain
or disagree or get angry at something bout you???
and most of the times you don't know what that something is
you get annoyed and just feel like slipping away from everything
you don't take first chance and ask them
you get angry because you feel you are not being appreciated

but is it the way out
NO

solution is to communicate
no body is a mind reader
the best way to understand and to be understood is to talk
talk about how u feel
ask about what others feel
find out where the problem is
talk out the solution

you will see how easy it gets to be lived up to your expectation
and to live up to others expectations

it isn't that tough

develop your understanding to such a level
that u talk your man's or girl's heart
and u say it best wen u say nothing at all

it takes time but then
every good thing does

its all about how willing you are to get things easy and tension free..........

6 Obiters:

Mann said...

Very true but i guess at times silence work wonders...

Rajshree said...

hey sis...wish u all the best and very trueky said....this is very beautiful....and thanks too as you have ritten what people don't even think of...

Unknown said...

You have met me before
Once upon our dreams
Everything was perfect
But nothing is what it seems

I pass you in the halls
And yet you never seem to care
I see you everyday
And you don't return my stare

Eyes are the window of the soul
Why is it that you can never see me?
My eyes are locked on you, my heart is yours
Because you hold the key

I wish I could talk to you
But when I begin to speak
I never have the courage
Because my heart is very weak

My tears will never cease
Because I know that you will never care
Who I am or what I do
This kind of love is rare

This is a one way street
A street which I can never cross
I can see you on the other side
But my heart is at a loss

You are like a drug
I have an addiction
I say to myself that I will quit you
But that is a contradiction

My dreams are as clear
As a blue summer sky
You and I are hand in hand
I cannot let this fantasy pass me by

All I want is to talk to you
For you to return my smile
It will make such a difference
It will be worth your while

We may come from different caste
But in my heart I know we are the same
There are so many obstacles --
You don't even know my love......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

the factfiction said...

agree

the factfiction said...

:)

Unknown said...

So beautiful and said ☺ thank you for sharing..... God bless you

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